Does my chick want me back?

Even if he didn't, the age o' consent in most US states is 16.

Really? I never knew that. I need to get out more.

Guys Im from scotland! Its legal ok

HERES THE LATEST

I went out last night and everyone that knows her kept coming up to me sayind "dood call her"!! Everyone!! It was the first thing they said. This is weird, I mean she was the one guys, and I lost her, but now she definately wants me back!!

What do I do.

I have the options now. I want her back! I know you guys will say dont do it but please guys. All my pals are saying just go for it.
I mean even if she does the same again n leaves me it wouldnt hurt as much.

I F#@king love her :( I wana be with her for christmas

Hey I felt quite cool when you guys were talking about me.. calling me axl.. forums are neat :) you meet genuine pals

Also the age thing is no big deal. She looks and acts oder that me :rolleyes:

Plus she used to totally mother me :) I loved it. She'd even cut up my baked potato into smaller more managable pieces before a big pool match.

Originally Posted by: Axl_RoseWhat do I do.

No matter what your friends say, I stick to my opinion that the ball is in her court and that she should make the first move.
Do the two of you even communicate at this time? How about just sitting down for a talk?

If you do decide to get back together with her be careful. This is a perfect setup for you to be used. I'm not saying that's necessarily what her intentions are, I'm just saying in the hopefully unlikely event that were the case she's got you by your balls.

Of course, I was pretty much raised in a cult and consequently have never been in any kind of a normal relationship (including that whole family/friends shtuf) so you should probably pay less attention to my advice than that of this board's members who are more experienced in social affairs.

I never bored her. She admitted when we split that it had been awesome but she didnt want to let it go further because it wasnt fair no me. Because she wanted to go off and do her own thing. We did so much in so little time you know.

She couldnt use me because Im not expecting anything from this.

The latest is... that we've been talking again. We've kinda agreed to sorta see each other like when we first met. In private. We play pool at the same pub and I met her because her dad is my pool captain. When he joked "what have you been doing with my daugher through the back" he didnt know the half of it!! It was fun and exciting. Maybe we are both about to use each other for some excitement...

I dont even know if I want to commit to her. I just want some excitment and romance. If it all ends again I wont be bitter this time.

Shes amazing. Shes just been picked out of 100s to go to seattle in feb for some acting work. Shes with the Lyseum group or something or other in Edinburgh, its one of, if not thee most prestigieous theatre groups in europe.

Shes kinda famous where we live as just a nice girl. Everyone knows her and loves her. Shes just so well brought up too. She has manners. Shes everthing Ive always wanted.

This is my second chance guys. She says she regrets losing what we had first time around so if I can give her it again she might not throw it away. We are both about to start new phases in our lives too. Ive finished uni and her acting stuff is taking off more and more.

Me and her just click :)

Im seeing her in a few days... I cant wait :o

I joked about how all I wanted for xmas is her.. but I never get what I want. Then she replied "maybe this year santa will be good to you"

Oh and the age thing means nothing. Shes lived more than most 21 year olds I no! Shes not niave. Shes probably the most independant person I know and shes very smart

I know I must come across as really niave..

Guys I just cant let this opportunity pass... out of all the guys like me.. posting in forums all over the world about how there girl is one in a million.. believe me that mine really is :(

Good luck bro. I could tell you kinda had your mind made up 20 posts ago. It seems like your asking permission from us or something. All signs that we see point to this ending badly again, but what the hell? We may all be wrong, and plus you only live once so if you get another crack at it, go for it. Try and stick some insulation between your feelings and her, this will add an edge of mystery about you that may just up your stakes :D At the very least you won't be hurt again if it all comes tumbling down.


Don't act like a lovesick wussy either, chicks don't like it. ie clingy. :cool:

Best of luck

Thanks dawg *pats lees shoulder*

I value all of your opinions... Im taking your advice on takin it slow and avoiding getting cuaght up in it.
I mean we could see each other a couple of times and that be it.

This is who i am guys :( I try to live my life like Im a rockstar... sex drugs n rock n roll.. shes my titz n ass rock chick!!

I never asked you guys to stop being guitarists... :( so dont ask me to stop being me *walks out door with tear in his eye*

Bottom line:

Just go for it ..... I've been through this situation enough, and taken the safe road enough, that you're better off just taking the leap. If it hurtrs in the end, you're back to square one, you're hurt now, you'll be hurt then, things change, the world moves on .... but if it works .... by god you're the happiest man alive ... or so i hear

I dunno about you guys, but my mind changed a lot between when I was 17 and when I was 19.
Funamental changes in outlook towards life, so much so that if I'd had a gf before it happened, she'd have felt I was a completely different person, like she never knew me. Whether it was a change for the better or worse is not for me to say, but change I did.
For that reason, I wouoldn't go out with a chick who's still in her teens. Even if she acted 70. I'd wait for her to get to the point where if she was gonna grow up, she's done growing up.
16, I feel, is still to early to tell if she's done growing up.
And what I mean by being finished with the growing up, is stuff like deciding whether or not she'd want a dude to just hang out with, to marry, to go down on her once in a while, what. And a lot of other "life" issues.
But hey, if you guys are back together, and you're happy, and she's happy, then I guess it's all good. It's not for me to say otherwise.
All I can hope, for aXle's sake, is that she doesn't meet some dude in America (you said she going to America, right?), or even some some chick, and decide that this is what she's always wanted.

Yes shes going to seattle in Feb but If Im back with her offically by then I'll be hinting for me to come with her :)

Yea she has growing to up do... so do... but I know couples who've stuck together for years through those late teens early 20s. Some people do stick together.

I wouldnt say Im going back out with her yet though.

We are flirting and making each other laugh again. And we've agreed to like 'see' each other again.

Maybe this whole return to what we had has made her realise she likes me again.

But then heres the massive 'sex in the city' style column question...

...... "Does she love me.... or love the way she feels around me?" .....

I mean whats love? If Im the only person in the world that can make her as happy as she is with me... then does she love me for me... or me for making her happy?
Do I love her because of who she is... or because she makes me unhappy like no one else can...

...."What is love!?".... :rolleyes:

The best way to get over someone ...is to get under someone else.... do them all ... let God sort them out

^bad advice.

She is 16 and you are 21....come on man 16 will get you 20 hello

Move to Canada.
Legal age is 14 so actually she's getting kinda old. :p

I was in your shoes not long ago at all. Im working next to the girl I wanted and thought about constantly as I type this. I was like you, I consulted with my buddies on KORGSTUDIOS.com and 95% of the people said "DUMP HER"
or forget about the self centered twit.
Lesson A: Dont date co workers, EVER.

It took about a month, during this month I completely quit calling her, emailing her and speaking to her for the most part. "hi, whats up" was the extent of our conversations. In a short time, I saw how miserable this girl had made me. Most people know how you are feeling, and despite my metalhead mentality, Im pretty much a tender hearted kind of guy.

But Im SO GLAD that we are no more, because when you think of all the time she is on your mind, all the wasted hours you spend thinking about her when you could be doing ANYTHING else, its just retarded! And there are other fish... and lots of them! And lots of them actually ARE appreciative of guys like you.