If you do decide to get back together with her be careful. This is a perfect setup for you to be used. I'm not saying that's necessarily what her intentions are, I'm just saying in the hopefully unlikely event that were the case she's got you by your balls.

Of course, I was pretty much raised in a cult and consequently have never been in any kind of a normal relationship (including that whole family/friends shtuf) so you should probably pay less attention to my advice than that of this board's members who are more experienced in social affairs.