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DAMAGED ONE
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10/11/2006 5:08 pm
Winter is coming and Im sick, Sinus problems suck :(
Plus My wife and I are going to file for DIVORCE and I got two little kids I miss very much :(
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10/11/2006 5:10 pm
oh man im so sorry to hear that...i really dont know what to say...everyone seems to be going thru tough times these days...uve got to hang in there buddy...how often do u get to see ur kids?
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10/11/2006 5:15 pm
Like two hours a day
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10/11/2006 5:17 pm
that sucks...can't u compromise with your wife?
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10/11/2006 5:28 pm
Originally Posted by: jeffhxthat sucks...can't u compromise with your wife?

Well its a very long story but she verbily abuses me all the time and now she calls the cops on me!! if I get in her face because Im pissed because of her mouth :mad: I dont love her anymore. It for the best the kids dont need to see or hear us fight all the time you know.
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10/11/2006 5:33 pm
hmm in that case its good for the kids...but still im sure ur entitled to seeing them still...perhaps the best way to go abt this is to leave it to the kids to decide..if they wanna see you she shudn just restrict them...
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10/11/2006 6:57 pm
That's too bad about your marriage..

I've gone through it - still haven't quite finished getting through it yet.. But pretty much done...

Hang in there and don't be afraid to fight for more time with your kids... I offered my ex joint custody, but he wouldn't take it.

Hopefully once a little time passes, you will both be able to sit down and look at the big picture and realize that its in everyone's interest for you to be able to get through this rationally.
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10/11/2006 10:58 pm
So sorry to hear about that man...hopefully the kids aren't being used to get back at you...thats low. Real low.

Hang in there...
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10/11/2006 11:03 pm
Sorry to hear that dude. Went through a divorce myself (no kids involved though so I can't imagine what that must be like). I am sure that there are legal channels you can pursue to get access to your kids. That stinks though that you have to fight to get to see them.

I remember when my best friend went through his divorce and he had two small children involved. We sat down and talked and it was decided that some times the hardest thing is the best thing to do. It's hell leaving but staying in a bad, hurtful relationship is far, far worse.

Hang in there. You'll come out the other side a much happier and healthy person.
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10/12/2006 8:27 am
I actually wish I could get divorced.... :eek:

I was with my 'wife' for 10 years, but never married. No kids so am lucky there (from a break up perspect anyway), and my sincere wishes for a happy outcome for you there.

My issues are financial - there seems to be little I can do about being taken to the cleaners. She paid nothing over the time, I supported her nice easy lifestyle sat at home relaxing. My thanks for this? a letter from her solicitor demanding around £100,000..... nice. If we were married, a framework would exist to sort this.... ho hum

I guess I have it easy compared to you Damaged... are you taking legal advice?

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10/12/2006 12:16 pm
Originally Posted by: Tonja_ReneeThat's too bad about your marriage..

I've gone through it - still haven't quite finished getting through it yet.. But pretty much done...

Hang in there and don't be afraid to fight for more time with your kids... I offered my ex joint custody, but he wouldn't take it.

Hopefully once a little time passes, you will both be able to sit down and look at the big picture and realize that its in everyone's interest for you to be able to get through this rationally.
I offered my ex joint custody, but he wouldn't take it.
I love my kids with all my heart I cant understand why some guys dont care about their Kids????????
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10/12/2006 8:36 pm
Sorry I have to ask this:

Damaged One, what are you? Your first post said you were splitting up with your wife, but your last post just referred to your ex as a man. Was that a typo, or what? Are you a man or woman?

Akira and I would very much like to know.
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10/12/2006 8:57 pm
I think he was just re-quoting my post...
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10/12/2006 10:33 pm
It's never easy, adjusting to living on your own.
You might feel that you've lost a lot.
What you have gained, is more time to do what YOU want to do.
Explore.
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10/13/2006 8:31 am
I wish your family all the best, get well too, i just got over a cold that lasted 3 weeks, take care of yourself. tell you kids you love them every day.
things may seem bad ,be strong and things will start to look up
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10/13/2006 2:34 pm
Originally Posted by: DAMAGED ONEWinter is coming and Im sick, Sinus problems suck :(
Plus My wife and I are going to file for DIVORCE and I got two little kids I miss very much :(

omg i am so sorry ......i hope u will feel better
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10/13/2006 7:48 pm
Originally Posted by: earthman buckSorry I have to ask this:

Damaged One, what are you? Your first post said you were splitting up with your wife, but your last post just referred to your ex as a man. Was that a typo, or what? Are you a man or woman?

Akira and I would very much like to know.

HaHaHa ---- Well, Im all MAN and the last time I made love to my wife?
uuummm 8 Months ago She was female. LET ME SAY IM NOT GAY!!!! :D
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10/13/2006 7:54 pm
I mean it Thanks!!!! GT friends I feel better already Its a good thing to get something off ones chest and recieve some feedback. :)
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10/13/2006 8:43 pm
I'm so sorry to hear about that, man... get well soon, and I hope everything works out for you with the divorce.
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10/13/2006 10:53 pm
Originally Posted by: DAMAGED ONE
LET ME SAY IM NOT GAY!!!! :D


Noot Doot Daboot it.
For life is quite absurd and death's the final word, You must always face the curtain with a bow
Forget about your sin - give the audience a grin
Enjoy it - it's your last chance anyhow.

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