Feel like crap

like staying together with someone is the most challenging part of life
nowadays. Someone needs to write a book about how to do that in this day and age. We can't just talk about how things used to be. we need direction for now and ofcourse we all need the willingness to fight the good fight
But whichever way it goes, the welfare of the kids should be the only focus
-my 2 centavos

Condolances dude, i,ve recently been thru it so i know where your at, its tough, but, you WILL get thru it :)

16 Years ------------ Im ready to move on. But I will ALWAYS be there for my kids. I just hope I dont have to live in my Ford Explorer The Lawyer wants 250.00 to start 150.00 an hour 145.00 file fee 250.00 to close. Can you say BROKE :mad:

Yeah its expensive dude, my lawyer took me for £160 an hour! bout 300 u.s? so i'm broke now! in the end i let my ex keep MY house so my little girl didn't have to move and change school and lose her friends n stuff, seems to have worked so far, just been to parents evenin at school tonight and she's TOP of the class in ALL subjects! so i'm really proud of her and i know i did the right thing not selling the house, its her home and she's happy there, i get to see her as much as i want and she comes and stays over whenever she wants so it workin out ok so far, hang in there dude, be there for your kids, and like i said before, you will get thru it, as long as your kids know your there for them they'll always love you and wanna be part of you life.
Hope everythin works out for ya :)

Regards
Strat-man

Thanks, Does your x work? mine dont. :(

Yeah she works, but only part time at minimum wage, it costs me more to pay for the house than i would have to pay in child maintenance payments, and my job pays crap! so its a real struggle but i don't wanna see my little girl out on the streets.

Good stuff guys. Awsome that some people are mature enough to realize kids are more important than stupid grudges.

Originally Posted by: ericthecableguyGood stuff guys. Awsome that some people are mature enough to realize kids are more important than stupid grudges.

I dont care how much you may hate your Ex Please Please be there for the Children They NEED a Father too. :)

Well everyone we are going to make a go at it. We are going to counceling to save our marrage. Wipe the slate clean so to speak.

That's great to hear. I hope everything works out for you.