Yeah its expensive dude, my lawyer took me for £160 an hour! bout 300 u.s? so i'm broke now! in the end i let my ex keep MY house so my little girl didn't have to move and change school and lose her friends n stuff, seems to have worked so far, just been to parents evenin at school tonight and she's TOP of the class in ALL subjects! so i'm really proud of her and i know i did the right thing not selling the house, its her home and she's happy there, i get to see her as much as i want and she comes and stays over whenever she wants so it workin out ok so far, hang in there dude, be there for your kids, and like i said before, you will get thru it, as long as your kids know your there for them they'll always love you and wanna be part of you life.
Hope everythin works out for ya :)

Regards
Strat-man