I was with my 'wife' for 10 years, but never married. No kids so am lucky there (from a break up perspect anyway), and my sincere wishes for a happy outcome for you there.
My issues are financial - there seems to be little I can do about being taken to the cleaners. She paid nothing over the time, I supported her nice easy lifestyle sat at home relaxing. My thanks for this? a letter from her solicitor demanding around £100,000..... nice. If we were married, a framework would exist to sort this.... ho hum
I guess I have it easy compared to you Damaged... are you taking legal advice?
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