do girls play guitar

I have been away fro a while(actually I've been on the net all along but too too too busy to post) and I didn't want to sign in when I didn't have to click on "new posts" to see what's been up since I been away. But since I've seen this, I feel inclined to post, so I've been "forced" to log in.
About girls and guitars:
I started a thread similar to this one back in my early days on this forum, although, in retrospect, girls might find it offensive, coz my allegation, which was the thread title, was that "beautiful girls don't play guitar".
I know that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but in my own experience, I generally don't see women who I'd consider marrying/dating/having sex with who happen to play the guitar. I see a lot of what I'd call beautiful women in lots of other places and doing a whole lots of things, but never guitarists. Plus I don't know if women guitarists appear to be fewer, or actually are fewer, but how often do you see a girl (hot or not) walking down the street with a guitar on her shoulder. Or do we guys walk with the guitars to show off, and girls aren't like that? I dunno.
All in all, I've always wondereed about girls and guitar. I guess it's coz of how I sooooo easily hit it off with guys who play guitar, I hope if it was a girl, how would it go.
If Tracy Chapman wasn't married with kids, and our paths crossed, I'd make a move on her. She isn't your standard "hot", but I dig her.
I like Jewel, but I'd probably not date her. Probably.
I like Alanis's music (what guy wouldn't a girl who says in a song "....would she go down on you in a theatre (like I would)..."), but I don't dig her sex wise.

just look at all these country singer gals...

Originally Posted by: guitarjockey111i totally agree that us guys shouldnt be going is she hot does she have a rack stuff like that cause it is stupid i meen do girls go hey does th8is guy have a huge bulging chest or a huge penis i dont think they do so why should we do the same to them.

dude... you have a lot to learn about women then, cause most do do that. unless they get to know you. but if they see random guy walking down the street... it goes through their mind.

Originally Posted by: AkiraI still fail to see the point in this thread. Tbh, I find it a bit discriminative towards females. "Do females play guitar?" It just makes it seem like they are alien especially when it comes to guitar. It's abvious that females play guitar, there just appears to not be many of them. I bet there's a female guitarist that could wup all our asses. I wish people would stop with the "Ooo she plays guitar, is she hot?" FFS, stop seeing women as objects.

(No, i'm not female. I just feel that females are treated unfairly in this society.)

I'll never stop with the "ooo shes a guitar player, is she hot?"

Of course if a girl plays guitar I'm going to want to know if she attractive, and if she is then hook up with her. Wouldn't you?

hahahaha guys are so funny.

yeah, i agree you need class to get a girl (no **** i am one) and like a girl is not 'hot' she is beautiful, it sounds so much better lol

Originally Posted by: guitarkim5588and like a girl is not 'hot' she is beautiful, it sounds so much better lol

I don't like the word "beautiful." I usually say they're "gorgeous." I find it sounds much nicer. Welcome to the forum, Kim. Hope our lessons learn you to be a shred-nasty guitarist.

its so funny how jolly shows up when the women do
whats up with the girl thing
calling them girls is like calling us(i am a guy) a boy
and when i get called"boy get over here" i bring it ok so lets have no more girl either its women
and jolly only jokes
by the way kim
Jolly is a sick guitarist so its all good hehe
k i am outta here back to my eupiphone....I WANT A GIBSON XPLORER!!!!
:cool: enjoy your nights ladies and gentlemen
peace in the middle east :( seriously its enough already

Last time I called a girl a "woman" she got pissed with me and said "I'm not a woman, I'm only 25 years old", so I never did that again.

Any girlfriend ive had alway's rips me away from my guitar...I would rather have a girlfriend that would want to jam instead of playing hanky-panky all the time.Thats just a dream though.

I have to admit that many girls favor a prick of a boyfriend that hurt them emotionally and neglect them :confused:
Thats just my observation though.

Originally Posted by: PonyOnethinking it and actually making comments like that are two totally different things. every (straight) guy who sees a girl who's hot and goes "wow, she's hot!" but that doesn't mean that you have to go "damn, you're hot, baby" or anything like that.

my g/f gets comments like "wow, you've got huge (insert your favorite slang for breasts)!" on a daily basis. if she's out walking around, on an hourly/minute-to-minute basis. let me ask you this... can you recall a time that you said to some girl "you're pretty hot" and she was like "thanks, want to be my boyfriend?" no, you gotta have some class, some panache.

it's another matter if it's a friend of a friend, they're like "oh i know this girl who's a really awesome guitarist." so you go "cool, is she hot?" and they respond with "yeah, she's frickin gorgeous" to which you go "she is the ultimate woman. can you introduce me to her?" but when you're face to face with a girl and start saying crap like that... it just makes you look stupid and kind of like a prick.

so if you can't stop... you better get familiar with the kleenex aisle at the local supermarket. drop dead gorgeous women don't go for the standard pick up lines that work on the 300lb gorilla girls that hang out in front of Hot Topic.

Class isn't important to girls. You don't know what your talking about. This is made clear by the fact that you are assuming that I even use a pick up line at all. You also assume that the pick up line that I would use is "hey baby your hot." I didn't think that I would have to explain the quote, "ooo shes a guitar player is she hot?" But wasn't it clear to you that this dialog would not have occured between the girl who played guitar and I.

People don't want advice unless they ask for it, and especially when unsolicited advice is misinformed, and lacking any clear understanding of what is actuality. In addition, if your girlfriend has you beliveing that class is an important foundation of a relationship then you need to get rid of her. How do you like that for advice?

Originally Posted by: guitarkim5588hahahaha guys are so funny.

yeah, i agree you need class to get a girl (no **** i am one) and like a girl is not 'hot' she is beautiful, it sounds so much better lol

Nah ill just stick with hot cause I don't give a f***

ok i will stfu, but no more advice unless i ask first please. i hate that more then anything.

Relax hamberg...have a cheeseburger.Pony was not attacking you.Guitarkim didn't attack you...so STFU! :mad: lol

Play nicely now or this thread will be closed and the offending comments deleted.

Flaming is NOT allowed.

In an Ideal world my girl could outbeat any male guitarist and own a bar....Heaven.....

On a serious note, many girls have other ambitions in life than to play guitar, they go through a phase where it`s "cool" to play the thing but then realise it`s even more "cool" to look hot and go with a guy that plays guitar, I know which I`d go for...not sure about some on here though lol....{offensive remark deleted}

ahem....harmonica....is that better Lord???

Originally Posted by: chucklivesoninmyheartAny girlfriend ive had alway's rips me away from my guitar...I would rather have a girlfriend that would want to jam instead of playing hanky-panky all the time.Thats just a dream though.

My girlfriends have always liked it when I play guitar...and one of them even jammed with me on occasion (piano).

haha,
well i have some guy friends that play mad guitar so i know how it feels and how much lots of guys love guitar more then anything in the world. i cant even really play right now and i love it.

Originally Posted by: HammurabiFor real? Interesting.

I hate lifting alone. It's alright if you've got a respectable amount of muscle mass, but I would just look like a p*ssy struggling with the weights.

You don't need to use heavy weights as long as you work the muscle group until you can't do it anymore. Thats called muscle failure. For instance, you bench 80 lbs. After you reach muscle failure take 20 lbs off the bar. Go to muscle failure again, and then take 20 lbs off the bar. Keep doing this until you reach muscle failure with the bar alone. You will get results.




I want to make it clear that I do respect female opions veiws and thoughts, There are however differences between men and girls. Also im am not going to change myself for a girl. If what I do isn't cool enough for her then o well. Some other girls will think that its cool.

Obviously approaching a girl and saying, "your hot, will you please be my girlfriend?" is not going to attract a girl unless she has serious self esteem issues, and likes to have a pansy for a boyfriend. Which is not the kind of girl anyone wants to attract.

When I said that, "I'll never stop with the, "ooo shes a guitar player. is she hot?"" I was simply trying to illustrate that we will never stop viewing girls as "objects" as one person put it. I don't belive that objectifing is even the correct term. Regardless, we will continue to view a girl as cute before we do smart, or talented, or whatever. Its biological, just like eating, and will never change no matter how much lesbians hate it. Which brings me to this point that theres a difference between girls being upset about equal treatment and girls being upset about the way men are. If a girl is upset that men are attracted to her physical appearance and personality first, then she must be a lesbian.

i agree that you shouldnt say to a girl oh your hot want to go out if she really like you and your capable of woooing her she'll go for you besides that that probally wnt work.and tottally i think it would be awesome to have a girlfriend that would jam along with you and suff you can make up riffs together and stuff that would be the life.

My girl plays piano and sings... she is fricken awesome at both... her brother plays awesome guitar though. as for the whole class thing, yeah it works. a girl would much rather have a really sweet and sensitive gentlemen over an incredibly handsome stud anyday... although it doesn't hurt.