Originally Posted by: PonyOnethinking it and actually making comments like that are two totally different things. every (straight) guy who sees a girl who's hot and goes "wow, she's hot!" but that doesn't mean that you have to go "damn, you're hot, baby" or anything like that.

my g/f gets comments like "wow, you've got huge (insert your favorite slang for breasts)!" on a daily basis. if she's out walking around, on an hourly/minute-to-minute basis. let me ask you this... can you recall a time that you said to some girl "you're pretty hot" and she was like "thanks, want to be my boyfriend?" no, you gotta have some class, some panache.

it's another matter if it's a friend of a friend, they're like "oh i know this girl who's a really awesome guitarist." so you go "cool, is she hot?" and they respond with "yeah, she's frickin gorgeous" to which you go "she is the ultimate woman. can you introduce me to her?" but when you're face to face with a girl and start saying crap like that... it just makes you look stupid and kind of like a prick.

so if you can't stop... you better get familiar with the kleenex aisle at the local supermarket. drop dead gorgeous women don't go for the standard pick up lines that work on the 300lb gorilla girls that hang out in front of Hot Topic.

Class isn't important to girls. You don't know what your talking about. This is made clear by the fact that you are assuming that I even use a pick up line at all. You also assume that the pick up line that I would use is "hey baby your hot." I didn't think that I would have to explain the quote, "ooo shes a guitar player is she hot?" But wasn't it clear to you that this dialog would not have occured between the girl who played guitar and I.

People don't want advice unless they ask for it, and especially when unsolicited advice is misinformed, and lacking any clear understanding of what is actuality. In addition, if your girlfriend has you beliveing that class is an important foundation of a relationship then you need to get rid of her. How do you like that for advice?