this topic is just about dead so i'll leave it with these thoughts:
at this point i don't even care what we're talking about, we could be discussing why it's wrong to burn ants with a magnifying glass for all i care. its the process of critical thinking that interests me. when someone says:
"i think (blank) is wrong."
"ok, why is that?"
"it just is."
"well yes you said that, but there must be a reason. convictions just don't spring up out of nowhere."
maybe it the patterns in the world around us. male and female are linked together all over the animal kingdom. but humans are different from animals. but we're still animals in a way. but we're also logical beings that break many of nature's rules. what about natural instincts and impules toward the opposite or same sex, where do those come from? the grandness of evolution seems to have paired off male and female together pretty well, and yet there are some people who are attracted to the same sex. i guess nature is pretty odd sometimes. speaking of, what about nature vs. nurture?
whatever the reason, it exists, and it seems to have existed for a very long time, perhaps even back to the earliest records of human history. the point is, you gotta throw the logic in reverse and get to the beginning, the source for why that particular belief exists in you given all of one's experiences and conditioning.
why do we think some things are wrong and some things right? have you ever thought about it? its strange. i like buddism's answer. if the purpose of life is to find happiness and peace while not harming yourself or others, then something is wrong if it hurts you or someone else. there are no metaphysical judgements on concepts or ways of living so long as they help bring about personal happiness. what, then, is there to be offended about?
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