Originally Posted by: Stephen PengillAlso I notice the instructor in the video is using a Fender Stratocaster. The size of each fret seems to be smaller than on my guitar (a Benson guitar from ebay which was part of a beginner kit). Could this be true or is it just the video perspective?
That is true. It's me and my '79 strat which has an "A neck" (Fender made A, B, C necks; all slightly different sizes & profile shapes). My hands are relatively small. Therefore I am using my favorite guitar there, which has a very small neck (thin across the frets and thin profile, too! Nice. :) )
Both Kevin & Jera offer good advice:
1. Go on ahead to other chords and things. Come back to the B chord later on on a regular basis and try it as you gradually improve your skill in other areas. If you are diligent in practicing, it will gradually get easier for you to do the B chord also.
2. Try finger stretching and strengthening exercises. But do not over do it. If you are reaching a PAIN level, then STOP! And go back to it later. It is counterproductive to continue playing through pain. Discomfort can be reasonably played through to a certain point. When it turns into actual PAIN, you need to give it a rest.
Another option: for now you can alternately play the B chord in one of these ways when it comes up in practice or songs (until you can manage the whole chord).
E |----------------|
B |--------4-------|
G |-----4--4-------|
D |--4--4--4-------|
A |--2--2----------|
E |----------------|
Hope this helps. Let us know how it goes for you!
Christopher Schlegel
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