the boss's daughter

man, ive been working at a guitar store for the last couple of months. and i have this awsome boss that i have become good freinds with. we go to the bar and everything together. one day this amazingly beutiful girl walks in and im like whoa!she completely knockedme of my feet. i turned to my boss and i was like "man check her out shes amazing". hes like "i know shes my daughter!" and he basically gave me the ol "stay the hell away from her!" look, so i tried my hardest to avoid her. but she came up to me and started talkin to me, and we really bonded emediatly. i knew i had to have this girl. she started to call me every night and we talked for hours on end, finally she asked me out and i was like ummmmmmmmm........what about your dad?! she said she had already told him that she liked me, and he was really cool about it. i couldnt beleive it!but i think he said that just to make her happy.....

so now im having her over tommorow and im totally spyched! this girl is beyond amazing. and im hoping for the best. im also hoping that this doesnt affect the freindship i have with my boss. can anyone relate to this? or am i insane for doing this to him?

Congratulations, man. I say go ahead with it, but have a candid talk about it with your boss first. Hopefully he will indeed be fine with it, having understood how you two feel about each other. If he's got a problem, you need to reason it out with him. It may be hard, but you've got to try and get him to come around - it's worth it. Gamble everything for love! :D

Originally Posted by: jiujitsu_jesusCongratulations, man. I say go ahead with it, but have a candid talk about it with your boss first. Hopefully he will indeed be fine with it, having understood how you two feel about each other. If he's got a problem, you need to reason it out with him. It may be hard, but you've got to try and get him to come around - it's worth it. Gamble everything for love! :D

something like that. talk it over with your boss, if it seems he's not really ok with it, then you'll have to decide which is more important this girl, or your friendship (oh! and your job too :p ) go from there.

if he is ok with it... SWEET! you:
1: are dating some really amazing (hot too? that was implied) girl
2: you work at a guitar store
3: you LIKE your boss, in fact are FRIENDS with him

wanna trade lives?

girls > jobs anyday, tho a job at a guitar store however ....

yep.. I can relate to this situation..

you and another guy are really good friends then a girl comes in and tears everything apart. I can totally relate.

Originally Posted by: pureyep.. I can relate to this situation..

you and another guy are really good friends then a girl comes in and tears everything apart. I can totally relate.

yer these forums seem to be like a real life OC - dare i say!

Just like everyone said... Have a talk with him. Remember that you were close with him before you knew her... It's a guy code "Bros before hoes". Make sure that he knows your intentions... and make sure you gain that respect you should get from him by approaching him about it. And if he gives you any terms or conditions... respect them. Don't ditch out on him either... hang out with him regularly and try to spend time with her too. This could be a potentially awesome situation for you... You could have the parents on your side... meaning if this girl ever decides to split on you... her parents are going to be cool with you over any other guy... And plus... it's always to know the person that you're with has cool parents that you can hang out with. Awesome man... congrats.

Ha, This reminds me of that Nickel Back song Animials :p
Oh my God thats my dad out side the car.

Well you should talk to him first, but if he doesn't like it, I say do it anyway. He doesn't have to know, if you don't want him to. At least you tried.

Yeah, go for it. Just make sure you know what you're doing; those problems Akira mentioned are very valid.

if you both truly love each other then i think you shouldnt let anything get in your way..

reminds me of the song "children of the night" by whitesnake... "don't hide what you feel inside dont let anybody get in your way..."

but if things dont work out well.. as in here's a good situation:

your boss doesnt want you to go with her but you do anyway then you end up breaking up really ugly and your boss is already mad at you and you lose your girlfriend and your job.

a similar situation happened to me just last week where i lost a very good friend over a girl.

if the girl's not gonna cooperate with your buds then i say i'd rather keep a very good friend than a girl i just met. Bros before hoes dude.

Hi, this is my first post here, but i would just like to make a suggestion. If all goes well, and you get your boss/her fathers blessing, don't come to work on monday and tell your friend/boss about all the freaky positions you and your girlfriend got up to on saturday night.... short term employment and no reference for you!

Originally Posted by: DISCIPLEofMETALman, ive been working at a guitar store for the last couple of months. and i have this awsome boss that i have become good freinds with. we go to the bar and everything together. one day this amazingly beutiful girl walks in and im like whoa!she completely knockedme of my feet. i turned to my boss and i was like "man check her out shes amazing". hes like "i know shes my daughter!" and he basically gave me the ol "stay the hell away from her!" look, so i tried my hardest to avoid her. but she came up to me and started talkin to me, and we really bonded emediatly. i knew i had to have this girl. she started to call me every night and we talked for hours on end, finally she asked me out and i was like ummmmmmmmm........what about your dad?! she said she had already told him that she liked me, and he was really cool about it. i couldnt beleive it!but i think he said that just to make her happy.....

so now im having her over tommorow and im totally spyched! this girl is beyond amazing. and im hoping for the best. im also hoping that this doesnt affect the freindship i have with my boss. can anyone relate to this? or am i insane for doing this to him?

NICE MAN NICE

dude, this is a perfect scenario...he already knows you, and hangs out with you, so he clearly thinks you are a decent guy.
I'm pretty sure every father is happy with his daughter going out with a decent guy (cos you wont stop her going out with guys, atleast he knows you're decent and not a tit!)

so speak to him...her father already likes you...if he's okay with it(which he should be, unless he's like a really paranoid dad, and expectes her never to go out with anyone, ever) then go for it...if he dissapporves, its your call.

Aschleman is right tho...once the parents like you, you're in a great position...especially if they know you well...then even if you do break up, they'll always wish that their daughter was with you, instead of...

Just talk to him about it...tell him how you feel, not how hot his daughter is...and he should be cool with it

try not to get her pregnant ... that would be a mistake.

I see it as a "potentially" perfect situation... It can go either way...

Love deserves sacrifice.
You never know this girl could be the perfect woman for you, I recently nearly split up with my girlfriend becouse other people were getting in the way, we hadn't spoke to each other in days and it was awful.
Then we decieded we had to talk things through and funnily enough we both said exactly the same things, we knew we wanted to be together, we knew we loved each other and we were both being stupid letting other people get in the way in the first place.
Now we are solid together and the people who were trying to stop this relationship in one way or another have realised we are for real and backed down and we are happier than ever.
Go for it man it could be the best move of your life.

suicidalmoose try not to get her pregnant ... that would be a mistake.

the best advice yet!