Originally Posted by: naveedafridiDo i stick with whats taught here or work with what seems easier when switching chords.
Comprehend completely the desire to learn it correctly the first time.
Although they could be narrowed down to just a few types and finger subtypes, essentially peoples' hands do differ as do their flexibility with age IME. Same with how each person learns best. Some are aural, some visual, others from written instruction. Ideally, a combination of the three.
One thing is absolute when it comes to guitar, or pretty much anything complex IME. Repetition is the mother of skill. Practise anything enough, and it will become rote.
Em->Am->Em->Am.. is a relatively easy chord change early in the one's learning journey. If a novitiate rather than returnee, [u]my advice is to initially try to change chords per Lisa's lesson instruction, and perservere with that methodology for several sessions. If after a time it still feels awkward, go with what feels natural and comfortable to you that affects the changes seamlessly[/u]. Later, you can return and try to master the alternate 'as taught' method change as suggested by SG Supreme.
For instance. Changing between barre Bm to D7 (third fret form) in trying to effect the lift off timing late enough to not effect sounding of Bm whilst placing being able to all fingers simultaneously on the strings necessary for the D7 chord when playing it at the 150BPM tempo required for "She Loves You". I've got it down to 'pretty good', but not perfect. At present, effecting that 100% simultaneous arrival and laydown on D7 (third fret form) fingering is still a work in progress. I'll get it eventually.
By way of another personal anecdote to which success has come more quickly. I use the common conventional form of (open) G. That is to say, the forefinger and index fingering the E (6) & A (5) strings with my ring finger fingering high E (1). When I learned that chord initially forty five years ago, that's how I was taught to form it. Even though I hadn't played in the intervening years, when I returned, that felt completely natural. Insofar as I remember eight months on, it also came to me very easily which is amazing in itself. Despite the elapse of all those years, deep down some motor skill memory must still have been retained.
To the point of the anecdote. I'd been playing this form of open G along with alternates and single base note Gs and barre Gs, and not finding it necessary in any song so far to use the (alternate) open form taught by Lisa of index (2), ring (3) and pinky (4) fingers. That is, until the day before yesterday when I picked up up "Lyin' Eyes" by the Eagles! o.O
The song's rhythm features a really pretty progression which requires an extremely fast change from G to Gmaj7 which includes two precisely timed liftoffs off the high E string with pinky and forefinger respectively to make it sound just right in between forming the changes from G to Gmaj7 and Gmaj7 to C. Like or not, to practically facilitate this the 2, 3 & 4 G fingering taught by Lisa really was necessary. So I got stuck in.
Now I'm just you're average plodder, no natural or prodigy. It felt unnatural and awkward at first, also having to overcome the tendency to do/form what was already learned. However, within half an hour I had it fluid. Later that same evening it was an alternate G & Gmaj7 no brainer. By the end of next morning's practice, (yesterday) that fingering was etched in my repertoire and I had also mastered the subtlety of the liftoff timings for the changes to have the open strings sounding as they do on the recording with that strumming pattern. By the next practice session that evening, without exaggeration I'd nailed it and could play both the progression and chord per that form as an alternate consistently. This morning? Part of my rote chord inventory. It now seems so easy I wonder why I had avoided it in the first place until I had a motivating reason. Alternating between forming or changing between either are now pretty much no brainers.
Along with determination and perseverence upon which Mr Coolidge's famous quote placed so much approbation, IME repetition until rote is the mother of skill. I find if I want to do something enough, the challenge initially presented is overcome by applying those three qualities.