I'm readin "The encyclopedia of Heavy Metal" and it's real good. You get a brief history on a lot of bands and a sort of synopsis of what their music's like and how it's changed throughout their career. Then to buy the stuff? Look no further than: http://shopping.theendrecords.com
They have so much metal ****, it's insane. And they're all pretty cheap. $13 mostly Me listing what I like probably won't help as much as that book, those 2 mags or that awesome ordering website. Check 'em out
The best music out is not on the radio or MTV!!!