Don't forget that it is not only you that is being auditioned but being in a band that has auditioned a lot of people, the existing band will feel like they're being judged as well. and they are. When I show up I don't think about myself being judged but, rather, are these people doing anything I'm interested in and are they good enough for me. It kinda takes the edge off you feeling pressure. let them carry the weight of feeling pressured.
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