You should have some basic knowledge in music before diving into theory, like knowing the intervals to construct a Major scale. That's where it all begins.
Starting with the Major scale helps to understand how notes relate to each other. Theory is better understood from the start. Music starts and ends with the C Major because it contains no accidentals (no sharp or flat notes) which are C-D-E-F-G-A-B, a total of seven notes. Each note is numbered,
C-1, D-2, E-3, F-4, G-5, A-6, B-7. Every Major scale will contain 3 major notes, 3 minor notes and 1 diminished note and are always in the same order from the root note. 1-major, 2-minor, 3-minor, 4-major, 5-major, 6-minor and 7-diminished. So the 2nd note of C Major is Dm. Why? For the answer you must go back to the Major scale. Since the note is D we use the D Major scale. Notice the third note in D-Major is F#. Flatten the third note 1/2 step makes it F, causing D to become minor and F fits in the C-Major Scale. Try the other notes and it will help to understand what chord progressions and scales fit well together. I call it the OJ theory "If it doesn't fit, you must aquite" because it allows you to bend the rules sometimes.
Next up> The circle of fifths.