This isn't funny anymore...

Sorry I havn't been' round much.

Okay heres my problem...

I "failed" while "spending time" with my girlfriend.This use to be just a private occurance,but its crossed the line...twice!It happened last week too.

I'm pretty sure its my meds(and I know this is a weird subject)but is there anything I can do to remedy this soon without spending a small fortune on a viagra type prescription?

Its all giggles and laughs until it happens....I am so ashamed and upset with myself.Any suggestions are very much appreciated.

edit:My signature has come to life...its horrible.

I know nothing of broken plumbing. Maybe ask your Doc if there are substitute meds for the ones you are taking. That'd be your best bet.

serious issue i reckon ur best bet is to go see your doc immediately..

In my psychology class we discussed this particular situation one time. A lot of people who take viagra probably don't need it. Sometimes the problem is in your mind or something (I wasn't very attentive in this class, being my senior year and I was already accepted into college). Maybe see a psychologist? It might be your meds though.

Originally Posted by: iihollyIn my psychology class we discussed this particular situation one time. A lot of people who take viagra probably don't need it. Sometimes the problem is in your mind or something (I wasn't very attentive in this class, being my senior year and I was already accepted into college). Maybe see a psychologist? It might be your meds though.

the placebo effect... ;)

I see a psychiatrist(hence,why I am on libido depressing meds)for depression and anxiety.The psychologist Who he works in conjunction with cots me 50$ a visit.

Is there anything natural out there(nothing with ephedra)that is readily available at a GNC mabey?

I do plan on seeing the doctor asap,but I can't schedule anything until late july...

Originally Posted by: chucklivesoninmyheartSorry I havn't been' round much.

Okay heres my problem...

I "failed" while "spending time" with my girlfriend.This use to be just a private occurance,but its crossed the line...twice!It happened last week too.

I'm pretty sure its my meds(and I know this is a weird subject)but is there anything I can do to remedy this soon without spending a small fortune on a viagra type prescription?

Its all giggles and laughs until it happens....I am so ashamed and upset with myself.Any suggestions are very much appreciated.

edit:My signature has come to life...its horrible.

So said 'The Beatles'...Now listen I'm staggman from the u.k. I'm getting on a bit but still 18 at heart..many of us have had the same crap...so don't worry coz the more you think oh I hope it works this time...more the chances it won't it sounds like it's probably in y'head....let your girl know how much she means & how awful you feel 'bout letting her down...that's what I did & if it's any consolation...I am 54 my wife is 27 now we have 2 lovely kids we love each other & treat each other well; yeah, we growl at each other at times like any one else but she helps me write music too! but is very patient at bedroom antics..'it was all in my head' she cured me just remember it won't be with you forever sounds like 'ya got a great girl too; just believe, I mean BELIEVE! you're be o.k. soon & you will be honestly...all for now staggy :cool:

I dunno about GNC but my mail is constantly bombarded with a bunch of stuff that promises a better sex life. Do a search on erectile dysfunction see what you come up with.

Originally Posted by: chucklivesoninmyheartI see a psychiatrist(hence,why I am on libido depressing meds)for depression and anxiety.

I think that you just answered your question right there. It may not be a direct side effect from your meds. But maybe it's what the meds do to your psyche that causes the side effect... It's still better to discuss the situation with the doc that subscribed the meds. They can go over the side effects with you... and you can also possibly ask about using viagra in conjuction with your meds... sometimes meds don't mix so always consult a physician before taking new meds while you're already on some. good luck withthe issue though bro

Never underestimate the practical value of morning wood.

Aschleman is right. One of the most common side-effects of mood-altering meds is erectile dysfunction. Check with the doc. There are tons of differing meds they can offer, juggle the dosage...that sort of thing.

A few questions though:

1) How old are you?

2) Do you exercise?

3) Get enough sleep?

4) Are you drinking with the meds? (a serious NO on anti-depressives)

5) And is this on your mind when you are with your girl? Believe me, you can and will psych yourself right out if you're thinking about it too much. It's like when you have a cough from an allergy. The more you start thinking about it, the more you cough. Same thing here.

6) Are things okay in your relationship with her? A lot of times, this can manifest itself as a pysch symptom when there is something you just can't bring yourself to address another situation.

Sorry to sound like I'm grilling you here but these are some things you might want to think about when you get in there to talk to your Doc.

Good luck.

What type of antidepressants are you taking, man? I take them as well, and I haven't had any libido issues - in fact, the type that I'm taking, Lovan, is sometimes used to treat erectile problems. Perhaps you should have a chat with your psychiatrist about your options for medication, he might be able to put you onto something different that will allow you to be treated more effectively for your problem.

It struck me as being very ironic, at least when I calmed down enough to be philosophical about it, that the SSRI drugs I was taking to treat my depression were destroying my sexuality. Now that's cause for depression! I turned it into motivation to 'get right' on my own.

Have a talk with your doctor. Pronto!

My doctor's initial response was to add Viagra to the list of meds I was supposed to take. I was persistent (and very loud) in my assertion that a less drug-intensive course of treatment was indicated.

He came around to my point of view in due course. It took a lot of work, but I've been flying solo for three years now. Your primary focus should be on doing what it takes to get right with yourself, and those around you. People can spend too long getting used to that crutch instead of learning how to walk on their own. You may not be ready yet to take complete control of your life, but you damn sure do deserve to enjoy the good things your life has to offer.

Decent nutrition will usually fix--or at least help--both depression and libido problems.

Sex problems, huh? Well. Good luck with that. If it helps any, for all I know I have the same problem.

i get way too much info when i click on this thread.

I don't think I can help you with your problem, but I just want to say I admire you for coming out and telling us about it. I'd never do that. Bravo.