Well, all I can say about this is never get in a relationship with anyone in your band. All three band I've been in that's ended me being in the band, and the most recent one the whole band broke up (which wasn't a big deal, we were just starting off).
The first band I was ever in we were tight too, great friends. But it just got to a point where we all were so busy, it was nearly impossible to meet anymore. Plus, I broke up with the drummer and that pretty much put a stop to our efforts. Its a shame though. We were together for a year, and it was maybe one or two months till out first show on New Years Eve. I'd like to think we put something good together. I miss good old Area 1 (name of the band).