Seriously though...theres lots of woman around your age(note YOUR age)that are far more 'set' in life and who are willing to settle down for the long term.Drinking ages,driving ages,gambling ages e.c.t dont change that 'I'm not ready to commit' ages are consistant anywhere you are in the world(unless your a hindu/indian or something and have a pre arranged union,but even then thier true feelings arn't made known...)
Try once,fail twice...