The actual names used for scale degrees are:
1 = Tonic
2 = Supertonic
3 = Mediant
4 = Sub Dominant
5 = Dominant
6 = Sub Mediant
7 = Leading note
8 = Tonic (Octave)
I usually just say:
1 = First or Root
3 = Third
5 = Fith
8 = Octave
So to put it simply, you can call the third note in a scale the mediant or third, it's up to you. Same goes for any of the others.
Hope this helps...
- J