I would defiantley go with your family... Even if you guys do have really good material and all, they might be your best freinds.. but id still go and stay really tight with your family, especially since your mom was in an accident ( give my best wishes to her)... Family is more important than music also... even tho music my be a big part of your life. Anyways theres tons of musicians down in florida... i do not think ull have much trouble there.

If it was me i'd be goin to florida. (IMHO)