This is all part of the normal development.

Here's what I'd suggest:

1. slow down
2. hum, sing, or whistle (etc) what you want to play
3. attempt to mimic it on the guitar

other ideas:

1. work on melodic ideas up and down a single string
2. work on intervals like 4ths 6ths etc.
3. experiment with string skipping and other related soloing approaches.

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