Edithb - I have a bit of arthritis in both hands and started using Dava picks.  For me, they have a really positive grip.  I pick up mine at my local music store but here's the website https://www.davapick.com/ .

By the way - I love The Bellamy Brothers.  I've seen them live a few times and they sounded every bit as good live as on record.

Happy New Year,

Rumble