Hi everybody

So here´s my question.

I am a begginner and I am trying really really hard to get the Fmaj chord with no luck. I tried all positions, exercises with my hand and guitar and nothing....

So, would it ok to say that if I can´t play that chord, I could play Fm7 instead?? I mean I now they are they same, but sound kind of similar to me, and its really frustating to see songs in the lesson plan with Fm and not to be able to play them..

Give some advice and please dont just tell me its about practice cuz I am now practicing hard, but I need some advice, tactics, workaround or something