Incidents, now I'm sorry, but you have become a self-indulgent-crap-talking-hot-head. You are the first to judge, telling how 'dumb (someone's) philosophy' is. I'm sorry, but that doesn't work.
I'm absolutely sure you can't sit with any band at all. And even if you were the new Hendrix, with that kind of attitude, you'll get nowhere.
Last night, there was a quite good sax player on a jam I was participating in. But he spoiled everything because he thought he knew better. Well, us stringers shut the ****er up by just playing those awesome grooves with the drummer that left no spot for him to solo over (he wanted to solo, **** the exchange) I had a blast, he didn't, **** him...