Techniquewise:anyone male or female can get good at whatever they choose to do,if they got what it takes,whatever that is.
Personally:I dunno why,but I'm drawn to female guitar players.Of course,being straight,and single,I'm drawn to women generally,but there's something about a girl/woman that plays guitar.If I saw a girl on the street with a guitar slung over her shoulders,there's a 90% probability I'll try to talk to her,even tho' I've never seen her before and don't know what kind of person she is....("she" could,for all I know,be a transvesite or transexual)but I'd still try anyway.They say the way to a man's heart is through the stomach,but with mine,that would be music.Unfortunately,if there's any chicks who know me who fancy me but don't know how to go about it,they'll never know this.Very sad.:)