Thanks LisaMcC For the response. My friends that play in bands said the same but it's just a bit agrivating not getting the pinky to stretch. I will keep on trying. Guitar Tricks has done wonders for my playing so far. Just have to get that pinky on track.

So I will try haghj500's suggestion. With the exercises taught here and the haghj500 TV relaxation method maybe I will get those crazy cords ....