Hey happyjuicegirl,
Like Douglas said it happens to all of us from time to time. I have used the gator grips, even made x's, and lines with the old pocket knife to rough them up some.

The gator grips were alright, but I went through at least 3 a night. Seemed like the tip would wear down, and I would have to grab another one.

Try a temporary fix now, something with grips, or rough up what you're picking with a little. Eventually you'll get used to it, and you won't need to do this. You may still lose your pick sometimes, but it won't happen as often.

Have a great weekend, and let us know if we can do anything else to help you.