I never got the whole idea of this music and violence thing. I remember one time going to see Primus, it was my ist time seeing them and was pretty excited. I spent the 1st half of the show dodging stage divers and slam dancers.For the second half of the show I had to move back so far away to get away from the violence I could hardly see the band. The whole experience sucked, know one was really there for the band, they all just wanted hit each other and grope the girls. I grew up going to Grateful Dead concerts so I don't really understand the whole attraction to this thing.