What kind of guitar is it that you have? A classical guitar has a very wide neck, a western-style acoustic has a thinner neck, an electric guitar has an even thinner neck (in many cases)... there's lots of different kinds of guitar, so if you really want to learn and the neck is too wide for you, you might consider going and having a look at the different types there are available.
I'm going to move this thread into the Gear Discussion forum as this is more suited to that forum, and also so that people who don't have full access can help by replying if they have more suggestions. Also, as your original post was in the full access section, I've removed your email address from your message before moving it to the public forums. If someone PMs (Private Messages) you, you will receive an email anyway.