From My understanding of theory, in order for the chord to be named
DbMaj7(9), the F note (M3) must be in the chord voicing and the 5th could become the optional note, if desired. Otherwise, the 7th interval just becomes an added note in the Suspended chord.
That's just my opinion of what this chord is.
Others may refer to it as a DbMaj9 (no 3rd), because it does have a M2 interval present.
Hope it helps....................