anybody know what steps you're supposed to take?
I mean if anybody here has been through this, who do you call.. what do you do? etc etc.. I mean physically who to call, what to do etc..

I guess this morning kinda shocked me into realizing that either one or both of them could suddenly drop dead. (I've been kinda anticipating my mothers death because of her health recently, but my dad is a total shock. I'm suddenly realizing he's lost a lot of weight recently and doesn't remember one day to the next).
I suddenly realize that the last words he said to me might have been "wait a second".

I guess this is one of them things you can only find out by doing. Funeral arrangements, cancelling credit cards and pension.. holy crap man