Having done the whole internet meet up - and benefited from it.. I'd say go for it. But be smart about it. Check this guy out... look him up. If you are planning on meeting him at his house.. look up his name for a listing in the phone book etc... Anyone on the level will be pretty transparent..

And of course let people know where you will be... and if you get there and things don't feel right, just leave.

I got on a plane and travelled to a different country to be with a man I hadn't met in person before... and it worked out, and am so glad I took the chance.... lol Different circumstances than you, but same type of risk.

Go have fun...