Yeah man... just back off a bit and be confident. Instead of always being the one that says "hey" to her on AIM or something try to see if she ever says it to you first... Chances are she won't... becuase she's probably the kind of girl that wants to be wanted and chased after... like every other girl... Just back off and let her dictate where it goes. Like I said though, be confident and be yourself and everything will work itself out. You'll find the girls play a lot of games and it's pretty important, as a guy, to learn how to get through the smoke and mirrors and down to the real stuff... Very rarely will you find a girl that isn't filled with tricks and drama between the 9th and 11th grade... so just sit back and watch your friends get torn apart by the female species and wait for a girl that you really click with. No use in trying to force anything.