Something like Dm/C would look like this (x3x321). The D string is muted as, in most cases, it would sound too much like a Dm7 chord.
Hopefully this is making at least some sense...There's no real secret behind it, it's just one of those things that isn't often explained and therefore quite a few people just don't know about it...
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