Whoops I corrected that "being her husband" thing.

Anyway,no the drug/psycho thing was unrelated to me in anyway.In fact,if I had not left in the morning,the course of his entire day might have been different(like time spent jamming instead of getting junk).

After letting him know that I couldn't do the project with him because of how I felt(about his wife)he did go into a typical "i'll kill him if I see him" deal,but I wasn't exactly expecting him to send me a thankyou card or anything.

I don't ever intend to let him know that she and I physically did anything.That would just send him into a deeper depression(or,if in person,a fistfight).

Ive asked her a number of times if what she feels for me is just a product of mistreatment.She doesn't think so,but only time can tell that.