Most importantly of all, don't give up. It could take days, weeks - maybe even months, (took me nearly four months to work out how to play from tabs for example), but it will eventually click. Remember, everyone started somewhere, so don't be too put-off if it doesn't happen straight away. Just stick with it and don't be afraid to ask for help.
Hope that's of some use!
Don't worry too much about me, ignore me long enough and I'll go away.