Wreckens --

It's not that you have "pissed" anybody off. It is now everybody knows your "situation".

1) New Guitar player
2) Playing for 9 months
3) little to no "formal" guitar instruction
4) 9 months of self teaching from websites and possibly some books or mags. Kudos for sticking with it this far.

Now that everyone knows more background it is much easier to help you along.

Now this is just an opinion but you may be, right now, trying to learn too much at one time. This could be causing you some frustration.

Since you are currently teaching yourself you must develop a self-discipline that exceeds those that take "formal" instruction.

The difference is that you currently do not have someone who can look and hear what you are doing "at the exact moment" that you play to correct any mistakes and provide insight into what you are learning.

I would recomend that you take a good "look" at your playing. Pick 1 thing you need to work on or would like to learn and devote/focus your "Practice Time" to that 1 thing until you can play it 3 times in a row with out any mistakes. Give yourself 30 minutes each day to that one specific thing and do not move on to the next until you have it down. This could take days, weeks or months.

The rest of the time outside of the dedicated 30 minutes of focused practice you can play around on all things you know currently or other things but with out the intensity and expectations.

There is a saying "crawl before you walk". You are in a place where we have all been. Stick with it and we are here to help.

2 cents. Good luck and Rock On!