For the most part, we're all looking for the perfect words that will get us on the right track in forming a band. However, you have to learn to work at your own pace, and you shouldn't be afraid to make mistakes.

It's safe to say that as musicians, sometimes we are afraid of that one discouraging moment where we just might realize that we don't have the courge to continue, that we don't have the will to play in front of not only our friends but complete strangers. But I'll just say this, before starting a band, make sure that you're in it for all of the right reasons, be sure that you're not just doing it to prove a point.

The only thing you have to prove in this lifetime is that you're strong enough to go for what you want and when you want it. When starting a band, be sure that you're comfortable with your surroundings. However, you wont always feel right at home with the new people that you're working with, but if you want to succeed, you have to have the patience to not only listen to their ideas, but treat everyone involved as equal partners. Never think of your band as a one man project, no matter if it seems like you're doing all of the work..

As for gigs, take whatever you can get, and make believe it's the greatest thing ever. It's important to keep your enthusiasm very high especially if it seems like you're at your very low spot.

And, with that sad, have fun partner.

-Joseph