Originally Posted by: suicidalmooseit gets to the point where your mind kinda says i'd rather have an orgasm then hang out with my friends and u loose sight of what's important.

True... I suppose 3-4 years ago when I was in high school I was in that... "hump everything" mode... I don't know I've completely pulled out of it yet... haha... but I atleast choose my girlfriends based on whether or not they'd fit in my life... rather than me giving up everything that I know to accomodate them... it's got to be a happy medium. But as for the "friend" thing. If you have this crush on her... tell her. If she doesn't feel that way about you... you don't have to see her all summer.. and maybe next year it will be different. Just let her know what's goin on... just like I've said before... "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"