good question r_moreno7, as a male guitarist I give mine lady's names, so it would make sense for you to name it after males but try to avoid the popular male names such as cheavenist pig, B******, sexist male etc.etc.(LOL)

Oh, we all whant to be better and it is hard but try not to doubt your level of ability, as guitarists we are our own worst critics, I myself have times when I feel that I am getting no better then when I look back I realise that I have come a long way.

Hope you achieve your goals and enjoy the guitar.