It wouldn't surprise me if she figured this would happen as well. I think that you need to look at the situation objectively; obviously she cared about your feelings, and didn't want to hurt you, but, at the same time, it's unfair for you to expect that, even if the two of you had an agreement to let one another know if there was something that needed to change, well, having the kid is something between her and her husband, not her and you. Knowing that you've had past issues with being suicidal and with anger, may have also played a part... maybe she was afraid to tell you becuase she was worried you'd have an extreme reaction to it. and, well, you are.
Ahhh, damn,
I gues I have to apologise to you all. I saw my dean this day, and she told me she knew that teacher was pregned. Only she forgot to tell me and thought I already knew.
And, that's my Quote all about, you were right. that teacher didn't told me because she was afraid it would bring to much tension. She didn't wanted me to feel bad.
I ow a lot of apologises....
Sorry guy's, I'm deeply ashamed :(