Originally Posted by: zoran the darkHmmzz.. You're making good points overthere. I'll keep your words in mind. But on thing, just one, what's so good about pain and suffering. I both experied them and I don't think it's an option. Maybe just stay out of it I gues...[/QUOTE]
I never said that there was anything good about either one of them. All I said is pain is an inevitable part of life, but to suffer is to hold something painful near. There's no reason why this should be any harder than it has to be. And truth be known, for what the situation is... I really think you're exaggerating things. In my own honest opinion, I don't think this is what's bugging you completely. Deep down in the center of all of this haphazardous talk is something that makes sense. At least as the chaos theory states, there should be. I really can't bring myself to believe that something like a crush over a married teacher is going to induce someone to become suicidal. If you're lonely that's one thing, but this situation is really abstract. And for this situation there's no reason why anyone should get hurt in anyway. Don't get me wrong though. I'm not calling you a liar about anything, just that I'm finding what you have to offer hard to digest.

Here, read this.
[QUOTE=zoran the dark]
It goes like this:
first I went to secondary school and got a crush on her, in that year she got married.
second in this year I met her with her husband kissing eachother at a party, and I thought that I should tell her after 4 years, so I did
third, I asked my dean what was "wrong wtih her" and my dean said nothing. ( she was there when I told that teacher)
and last, I found out she was pregned for four months.

Now tell me where the justification for your feelings is. Again, I'm not calling you a liar or denying the legitimate value of your feelings, but you don't really seem to have much to explain why you feel them is all.