Originally Posted by: Cryptic ExcretionsTo that I say force them to talk to you, if you want their guidance.


She's a teacher. There are actually laws forbidding her from engaging in such a life style. It could cost her her job. How do you confront something like that? I'd say ignoring is probably her idea of being responsible.


How far do you plan on getting by talking to the dean? If your teacher has yet to do anything careless, then really there's nothing that can be done because all the situation is is a student with feelings for a teacher. On the last sentence, all life changes. Time itself is just measures change. The more you resist the harder it'll be for you to grow.


I dunno, if it's already hard on everyone, then why make it worse? If you want people to see you and to hear you, then tell your story. No one listens to the one they don't know about. And finally, forgive her for what? I don't mean anything by that, but so far I've not really seen anything that pins anyone at any form of fault. So far I've gathered that a woman got married and is having a kid with her husband, but neglected to tell one of her students know about it. There's no fault in that. There would be fault, though, if she did do anything with you since relationships between students and teachers are illegal. So my question to you is, just what exactly is it that you're clinging to?

Simple, kick their a** or live one like nothing happend. you will mention te last one, but I doubt that. What about not sleeping at night, afraid to go to school, wishing you were dead? doesn't that cound? well? I dunno. If you ask me that is a fault while the only thing she could have done is ask. she didn't and waisted 4 years on it to let me know ( on my purpose). I know I can't blame her for having a baby, bud nobody tells me about it. They are holding back the truth, that's lying to me. that's the point that I'm trying to make, is it lying or what?

and yes, she can loose her job on it. But I lost my life and a reason to stay alive. That is why I felt so guilty for al that kind of trouble, I don't want to be in the way. I know I will always make her feel sick if I am around.
But I'm sick and tierd of having this burning hate and fear. Something just needs to happen...

so, kick their fence or feel miserable for the rest of my life?