I find I don't get nervous on stage just energized and ready to rock. I just try to find the most interested person in the audience and sing to her. I don't concentrate on the men in the audience because I don't pitch for that team. And I usually find that if your music can get through to just 1 person that the whole show was worth it. And you carry that pride with you for the rest of your life. I think that's why Hendrix overplayed so much to get through to just 1 person. If people think his overplaying was a lot of hot air than they didn't deserve to go to that concert.