I have been playing for 6 months now. For the first two to three months, I would be crying from the pain!! Then the callouses really started to thicken up and it started to get easier. About 6 weeks ago they all started to peel, and I am now playing with no visible callouses at all! My fingertips are definitely thicker, and to an extent desensitised, and it doesn't hurt anymore. I was tempted to use something to make it more comfortable, but I'm really glad I didn't. Time, perseverance and hard work has really paid off. Hopefully you will be feeling alot more comfy soon! :)