to use the "big guy on campus" analogy... what if there was a guy in the high school who took a sucker punch at you, so you beat him down... and when he ran away, instead of chasing him, you grabbed some guy who was cheering him on by the neck, kneed him in the groin, drop kicked him, and gave him an even more severe beat down? so the guy didn't like you, and maybe he even would have liked to have beaten you up, but regardless he wasn't the one that sucker punched you.
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haha... That's a better analogy! Because you incorporated groin kicking!