Ah, the time honoured tradition of getting a free movie/meal/whatever out of someone... Women have the advantage here, in as far as blokes pretty much never say no...

It might just be me.... maybe if we all played harder to get, we could turn this thing around? :D

Sorry to hear it didn't pan out dude - plenty more fish in the sea and all that. My suggestion would be to stay friendly with her and see if you can get in with any of her mates - you'll have more success if you get a positive introduction...