Doesn't hurt to crank the volume on the pickups a little more, either.
Once you get the technique down pat, you can mix it up a little with unmuted notes.
Re: "don't bother the wife and kids"...
If they really love you, they'll indulge you. :D
Reverand Erik :cool:
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