there is one thing that you hafta know, getting better takes time, you cant find a lesson and learn it instantly and get better just by sight reading it. You gotta love to do it
Ok so first off, the pinky thing, that goes away over time. I'm on my sixth year of playing and it went away prolly 5th. What I would reccommend about that is just play with your pinky as much as possible. Also some begginner exercises here will give you some things you could do to warm up everyday before you fool around on the guitar, work on the begginner lessons until you can do them in your sleep. then move up a skill level. You can throw some licks and tricks in the mix too. :)
anyways, have fun, its all about the journey, and it always gets better, when you hit some road bumps later on. just keep playing, dont get pissed because it only makes you worse.