Here's how I see it.
Do I approve of gay marriages?
Well, who's asking me to approve?
I'm I gay?
No.
Would I marry a guy?
No.
If there was a refurrendum to decide whether or not to allow gay marriages, I wouldn't go for the vote.
Why? I'm not bothered by it.
Not bothered to stop it,not bothered to assist it.
Everyone does as they please. If it is to come to pass that we shall be judged by a higher authority according to our actions, then we shall be judged.